July 26, 2017

don’t run.

We have to feel blessed for everything we’ve been through; all we have had; all we are becoming. When we take limits, restrictions and fears off our hearts, our relationships (or the makings of one) will become more successful. Look within yourself, erase the pain, become unselfish and learn how to trust before you look for love. We have an unlimited capacity to love. Don’t be stingy with that love because you’re unable to open up. It’s unfair to the person you’re with, and yourself. Being in a relationship and growing to love that person increases our resources and our capacity to give. Love keeps us alive long after we’ve departed & gives meaning to who we are, what we do & how we do it. It opens up to endless possibilities. So why run from it? Why deny yourself from taking a chance of feeling this way? So what if you’re 21; love don’t judge by age. So what if you’re not making enough money; love don’t need a payment plan. So what if you’re too busy; excuses to run from your true feelings & facing the reality. When we love under circumstances rather than in spite of them, our love is limited. Don’t limit yourself from happiness, companionship & the ability to grow with someone. With every new experience comes a lot of fears. You either run from it like a coward or deal with it head on like a brave champ. Which route will you choose?
April 24, 2017

step up your self-worth.

You can’t change how people treat you, but you can change what you accept. Stop accepting less than your worth. Giving people “the benefit of the doubt” has expired now. With the help of God and positive thinking, you’ll be able to make these changes to your life. You’ve accepted much lower than your standards in the past because you were afraid of losing people. Fear of loneliness. However, you’re still alone, still lonely, even while someone’s there. Step up your self-worth and you’ll see the difference in the type of people that enters and EXITS your life. Trust me, it’ll be refreshing.
April 17, 2017

cute cuddly counselor

I found a new term for lovely single women: “cute cuddly counselor”. Note, I said LOVELY single women. Not the rotten ones. Here’s what happens: — 1. The man is highly drawn to you and can’t figure out why. However, he DO know he’s not happy. — 2. You welcome him in into your life (whether it’s emotionalship, companionship, sexship or relationship) with no judgement. Just nurture & love. — 3. He’s now happy & has loads of fun with you. — 4. He learns (from you) on how to make his life, career, drama with his baby momma, emotions, or whatever it is: better. — 5. You’re no longer needed in his life. Girl, it’s okay. Move on.