July 13, 2016

healing alone.

Too many people have allowed themselves to remain in situations that are unproductive. As you mature, you outgrow interests, hobbies, habits and even people. The process of elimination works the best. Especially when you’ve exhausted all attempts to make it right. The more you stay in a negative situation, the more you need to start blaming yourself. Because of my strength and independence people rarely believe when I need help. Why is that? Aren’t I human like you? I’ve been taught that crying is a sign of weakness. However, when you’re grieving, mourning, or trying to cope with things that recently occurred in your life, you have no choice but to cry. Most times, I cried alone. But I almost allowed it to make me lose everything (even my business). So one day, I woke up. If you have the desire to do something, then do it. You will feel much worse if you never did. Then you’ll be living your whole life wondering the “shoulda, coulda, woulda”. Sometimes, we reach a point where we can finally tolerate the downfalls of life, yet are unable to cease it or prevent it from happening again. The only way you will successfully end it all (the negativity, the disappointments, the frustrations) is to stand up for yourself, and stand up for what you believe in. Quit settling & start your search for what you truly deserve. More than likely, your stress is caused by you compromising yourself, to suit others or a particular situation. I know that’s what caused mine. And I’ve finally ended that cycle. For months I’ve been catering to people’s incapability of handling problems the right way, or even their own stress, only out of hope, respect & love. But where are they now when I need them the […]
June 24, 2016

rip romeo.

My heart is hurting so much. This is extremely hard for me. It saddens me to say that Romeo passed away on May 5th, 2016. He was attacked by a loose 150lb Rottweiler (which the owner did not have on the leash and left the scene of the crime with her dog!). The doctors couldn’t save him, however he passed peacefully. I was able to hug and kiss him before he died. I’m going to miss him so much. You really don’t know how much joy and happiness he’s brought to our lives ever since I got him at 8 weeks old. His birthday was Jan 1st. He died at 4 years & 5 months old. We ask at this time to please pray for me and my family as we’re having a hard time coping with this. Especially me. I will still post his pictures on his instagram, because I have over 1000 in my phone. I don’t know what else to say. RIP my Romey. I love you.
March 17, 2016

emotional users.

Stop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. You should never have to fight for their attention. You should never feel alone when they promised to be by your side. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. There are people out there that will come to you in disguise, the “picture perfect person”, just to suck the life out of you. EMOTIONAL USERS is what I call them. Not only will they use you for your money, they will use you for your HEART. Your positive energy. Your time. Your talents. Your loving arms. Your kind heart. Your emotional stability. They will use you up until you realize you’re alone with nothing left but a story to tell. People like this will suddenly appear, take what they want, then suddenly disappear. Don’t you worry though, people like this don’t last long, so they will eventually expose themselves. They will lose that phony focus they had on you & will eventually show their TRUE colors. It’s up to YOU to not bend over & get fucked in the ass by them again. And remember: It’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true loved ones. Stay woke.