what you accept is what you receive.

You can’t change how people treat you, but you can change what you accept. With the help of God and positive thinking, I’ll be able to make these changes to my life. I’ve accepted MUCH lower than my standards in the past because I was afraid of losing people, but not anymore. This goes for personal & business relationships. All friends ain’t good friends and all money ain’t good money.

Step your self-worth up my kings & queens ♥️

emotional users.

enemyStop spending time with the wrong people. Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you. If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot. You should never have to fight for their attention. You should never feel alone when they promised to be by your side. Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your worth. There are people out there that will come to you in disguise, the “picture perfect person”, just to suck the life out of you. EMOTIONAL USERS is what I call them. Not only will they use you for your money, they will use you for your HEART. Your positive energy. Your time. Your talents. Your loving arms. Your kind heart. Your emotional stability. They will use you up until you realize you’re alone with nothing left but a story to tell. People like this will suddenly appear, take what they want, then suddenly disappear. Don’t you worry though, people like this don’t last long, so they will eventually expose themselves. They will lose that phony focus they had on you & will eventually show their TRUE colors. It’s up to YOU to not bend over & get fucked in the ass by them again.

And remember: It’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true loved ones.

Stay woke.

new beginnings.

meAs cliche as this may sound, and as cliche as that cliche statement sounds: I needed to start over again. When I looked back at all of those years of my blogs I had on this site, I knew it was time for me to detox. 13 years is a long time. I’m a whole new person, with a whole new purpose in life. Happiness. I know that sounds normal, but my definition of “happiness” has changed immensely this past year. Bare with me, you’ll learn more if you come along with me.

My business Kiss Chanel Designs is still growing strong, and I am excited to see where it takes off this year. No, I am not hiring for assistants at this time, however, I am dabbling with the idea of having a virtual assistant.

When I used to blog I felt so pressured to type a certain way, make it shorter, make it longer, add pictures, bleh. I don’t care anymore. My purpose is to have a fresh chronicle of my new path and to allow those that remembers me to read my chapters as I take them along with me.

Join me. 🙂