July 26, 2017

don’t run.

We have to feel blessed for everything we’ve been through; all we have had; all we are becoming. When we take limits, restrictions and fears off our hearts, our relationships (or the makings of one) will become more successful. Look within yourself, erase the pain, become unselfish and learn how to trust before you look for love. We have an unlimited capacity to love. Don’t be stingy with that love because you’re unable to open up. It’s unfair to the person you’re with, and yourself. Being in a relationship and growing to love that person increases our resources and our capacity to give. Love keeps us alive long after we’ve departed & gives meaning to who we are, what we do & how we do it. It opens up to endless possibilities. So why run from it? Why deny yourself from taking a chance of feeling this way? So what if you’re 21; love don’t judge by age. So what if you’re not making enough money; love don’t need a payment plan. So what if you’re too busy; excuses to run from your true feelings & facing the reality. When we love under circumstances rather than in spite of them, our love is limited. Don’t limit yourself from happiness, companionship & the ability to grow with someone. With every new experience comes a lot of fears. You either run from it like a coward or deal with it head on like a brave champ. Which route will you choose?
April 24, 2017

step up your self-worth.

You can’t change how people treat you, but you can change what you accept. Stop accepting less than your worth. Giving people “the benefit of the doubt” has expired now. With the help of God and positive thinking, you’ll be able to make these changes to your life. You’ve accepted much lower than your standards in the past because you were afraid of losing people. Fear of loneliness. However, you’re still alone, still lonely, even while someone’s there. Step up your self-worth and you’ll see the difference in the type of people that enters and EXITS your life. Trust me, it’ll be refreshing.
October 31, 2016

reminders for stress.

When life delivers a dose of difficulty and stress… Happiness is never constant, and it’s not supposed to be. – You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life.  To believe that you can reach a state of happiness and stay there forever, is like the tide believing she can reach for the shoreline and remain there forever; or like a fruit tree believing that if she only holds on tighter, she can keep her fruit from dropping to the ground.  Happiness is simply a series of moments that come and go and add sweetness to our lives.  Learn to accept this, and the more happy moments you will have.   Failures are temporary situations that teach us necessary lessons. – Life’s best lessons are usually learned at the worst times and from the worst mistakes.  So yes, you will fail sometimes.  The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant. You’ll never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work.  Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.  So get out there and try!  Either you succeed or you learn a vital lesson.  Win – Win.   Even if you can’t see it now, you are making progress. – You may not be where you want to be yet, but if you think about it, you’re no longer where you once were either.  You have good reason to believe that you can trust yourself going forward.  Not because you’ve always made the right choices, but because you survived the bad ones, and taken small steps in the right direction.  So cry for a moment if you have to, and get it out of […]