Comments on: where do i go? http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:01:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Shonni http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/#comment-2445 Shonni Sat, 18 Jul 2009 04:22:51 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1091#comment-2445 Wow this entry is pretty deep and I can relate. Some people are so wrapped in their own lives, they don't even make time to think about anyone else, but would probably be heated if you ever once acted like that towards them when they needed you. That's why most of those type of friends stay with problems, they focus on their limitations so much and fail to realize that they are makin their problems everyone else's and driving good friends or family away. Wow this entry is pretty deep and I can relate. Some people are so wrapped in their own lives, they don’t even make time to think about anyone else, but would probably be heated if you ever once acted like that towards them when they needed you. That’s why most of those type of friends stay with problems, they focus on their limitations so much and fail to realize that they are makin their problems everyone else’s and driving good friends or family away.

]]> By: Aoki Chinkee http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/#comment-2442 Aoki Chinkee Tue, 14 Jul 2009 19:28:38 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1091#comment-2442 I feel this one... I'm 16 but everyone comes to me with their issues because I'm the one that's going to tell you like it is, offensive or not. I don't judge anyone and I give advice to help you not damage you. But when it comes time for me to ask someone for advice, they barely pay attention or don't know what to do. It's like you have to solve your own issues and everyone's else I feel this one…
I’m 16 but everyone comes to me with their issues because I’m the one that’s going to tell you like it is, offensive or not. I don’t judge anyone and I give advice to help you not damage you.

But when it comes time for me to ask someone for advice, they barely pay attention or don’t know what to do.

It’s like you have to solve your own issues and everyone’s else

]]> By: Angel http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/#comment-2441 Angel Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:47:55 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1091#comment-2441 This bothered me a lot when my site was completely active. People would e-mail me with some of the wildest things. I have always been the type of person who took on everyone's problems. I always felt that I had to take care of people, but nobody took care of me. I've had my share of breakdowns and there's really only been two people beside God who's been there for me. After always carrying everyone's crap for years, I'm learned to just let it go. Life is too short to be dwelling on so many problems. This bothered me a lot when my site was completely active. People would e-mail me with some of the wildest things. I have always been the type of person who took on everyone’s problems. I always felt that I had to take care of people, but nobody took care of me. I’ve had my share of breakdowns and there’s really only been two people beside God who’s been there for me. After always carrying everyone’s crap for years, I’m learned to just let it go.

Life is too short to be dwelling on so many problems.

]]> By: Shannon http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/#comment-2440 Shannon Tue, 14 Jul 2009 15:24:31 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1091#comment-2440 I know <b>exactly</b> what you mean. I have always been the one that people come to for help because I was always labeled the strongest, especially in my family because I'm the eldest child. When my mother passed, a lot of my family members leaned on me because I'm the one that was the strongest and comforted everyone. But then I think back on those times and I really had no one to lean on. People tend to think that the strong ones don't have problems/issues and if they do, they're always able to solve them -- which isn't the case. It's a terrible assumption, especially for a friend to make. However, I will admit, it's a lot easier for people to make that type of assumption because the strong ones usually don't complain as much. We <b>do</b> tend to solve our own problems most of the time. But to be completely honest, I can't really rely on anyone to help me with my problems if 95% of the time they're coming to me when they need their problems solved. How much help are they are to me? Then there's the other aspect of things -- sometimes I just want to talk, I don't always want solutions to my problems, sometimes I just want to let it all out and most of the time I don't have listening ears. I know exactly what you mean. I have always been the one that people come to for help because I was always labeled the strongest, especially in my family because I’m the eldest child. When my mother passed, a lot of my family members leaned on me because I’m the one that was the strongest and comforted everyone. But then I think back on those times and I really had no one to lean on. People tend to think that the strong ones don’t have problems/issues and if they do, they’re always able to solve them — which isn’t the case. It’s a terrible assumption, especially for a friend to make. However, I will admit, it’s a lot easier for people to make that type of assumption because the strong ones usually don’t complain as much. We do tend to solve our own problems most of the time. But to be completely honest, I can’t really rely on anyone to help me with my problems if 95% of the time they’re coming to me when they need their problems solved. How much help are they are to me? Then there’s the other aspect of things — sometimes I just want to talk, I don’t always want solutions to my problems, sometimes I just want to let it all out and most of the time I don’t have listening ears.

]]> By: Seriya http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/#comment-2439 Seriya Tue, 14 Jul 2009 00:28:49 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1091#comment-2439 Girl, I can't believe you're still on the net! One of the original bloggers :d and I still see that you still blog things worth reading. Girl, I can’t believe you’re still on the net! One of the original bloggers :d and I still see that you still blog things worth reading.

]]> By: S http://kisschanel.com/where-do-i-go/#comment-2437 S Mon, 13 Jul 2009 23:58:05 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1091#comment-2437 Whenever you are feeling down, want to bitch bout something or someone, just holla. I've always got your back! If you dont know, now you know :) Whenever you are feeling down, want to bitch bout something or someone, just holla.

I’ve always got your back! If you dont know, now you know :)

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