Comments on: two-timing yourself. http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:01:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Yana http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2384 Yana Mon, 29 Jun 2009 09:18:14 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2384 :grin: keep speakin the REAL!!!! :grin: keep speakin the REAL!!!!

]]> By: Mella http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2348 Mella Fri, 19 Jun 2009 04:22:52 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2348 I loved the post. I couldn't have worded it better myself. I have been in the exact situations as described && yes it's hard 2 walk away. Especially with a child involved. But why spend the rest of your life unhappy knowing you will NEVER trust him because you have him not only 1, but 3 damn chances to get it right && clean his slate only to fail you once again. I think it's only human to give the man another chance, because I believe in giving ppl chances. But in a way, I'm inbetween, because I believe in giving ppl chance (in certain situations that it), but I also think that if he cheated on me once, then he will do it again. He was willing to jeopardize everything we had in the first place. But nevertheless, been there, done that. Never again. I loved the post. I couldn’t have worded it better myself. I have been in the exact situations as described && yes it’s hard 2 walk away. Especially with a child involved. But why spend the rest of your life unhappy knowing you will NEVER trust him because you have him not only 1, but 3 damn chances to get it right && clean his slate only to fail you once again. I think it’s only human to give the man another chance, because I believe in giving ppl chances. But in a way, I’m inbetween, because I believe in giving ppl chance (in certain situations that it), but I also think that if he cheated on me once, then he will do it again. He was willing to jeopardize everything we had in the first place. But nevertheless, been there, done that. Never again.

]]> By: WRHaven http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2347 WRHaven Thu, 18 Jun 2009 16:23:43 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2347 That was an awesome post. Yes, women choose to stay with their cheating men for many reasons. I think that is so funny that you mentioned the "Atlanta reason." Yeah, that ratio thing has been floating around forever. However, there are some cheaters that really do change. The problem is you never know if you have one that will. That was an awesome post. Yes, women choose to stay with their cheating men for many reasons. I think that is so funny that you mentioned the “Atlanta reason.” Yeah, that ratio thing has been floating around forever. However, there are some cheaters that really do change. The problem is you never know if you have one that will.

]]> By: Ineffable Woman http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2346 Ineffable Woman Thu, 18 Jun 2009 08:03:34 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2346 No matter how hard it is to admit... You do speak the truth. I am quite young but I've been in a relationship where I was treated bad... If you chose to use that word. It's just sad because... I knew this, deep inside me I knew I should of listened to my instinct but I wanted to see where it goes. I wanted to know how it could turn out. Mistake which I wouldn't like to repeat once more. It was nice to read the post though, no matter how hurtful. No matter how hard it is to admit… You do speak the truth. I am quite young but I’ve been in a relationship where I was treated bad… If you chose to use that word.

It’s just sad because… I knew this, deep inside me I knew I should of listened to my instinct but I wanted to see where it goes. I wanted to know how it could turn out.

Mistake which I wouldn’t like to repeat once more.

It was nice to read the post though, no matter how hurtful.

]]> By: Marcy Webb http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2339 Marcy Webb Tue, 16 Jun 2009 02:12:50 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2339 So many of us suffer from low self-esteem, which causes us to remain in relationships which are detrimental. Yes, God or a Higher Power can guide us, but, it is also having the tools and coping mechanisms to make the best choices and decisions. So many of us suffer from low self-esteem, which causes us to remain in relationships which are detrimental.

Yes, God or a Higher Power can guide us, but, it is also having the tools and coping mechanisms to make the best choices and decisions.

]]> By: PoliticalRob http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2333 PoliticalRob Sun, 14 Jun 2009 20:51:07 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2333 Excellent Read Chanel! I completely Agree! Excellent Read Chanel! I completely Agree!

]]> By: T http://kisschanel.com/two-timing-yourself/#comment-2332 T Sun, 14 Jun 2009 00:37:04 +0000 http://kisschanel.com/?p=1027#comment-2332 I can truly say this brought up a lot of unwanted emotions of my recent past. I mean it's not a bad thing or anything but it reminds me of why I have to endure all that I"m going through now only to be in a place of peace in the future. It's just hard to think about there being something better for you in the future when you are going through all the negativity of the present. I will say though to all the women out here young and old...ALWAYS go with your first instinct. If you get even a little bit of fear or second thoughts about being with someone or doing something then don't do it. I finally learned that it's not just an "instict" but in reality it's God telling you to listen to him before he has to throw you a lifesaver out before you drown. All in all I WILL say though...I refuse to give up on love just because one or two guys may have treated me like crap. Love is a 2-way street and if you keep going through a bad relationship it's not all you and it's not all him...it's that you need to just take time out to correct your weaknesses because God says...He doesn't bring two half people in to be whole...he brings two whole people in to be better! I can truly say this brought up a lot of unwanted emotions of my recent past. I mean it’s not a bad thing or anything but it reminds me of why I have to endure all that I”m going through now only to be in a place of peace in the future. It’s just hard to think about there being something better for you in the future when you are going through all the negativity of the present.

I will say though to all the women out here young and old…ALWAYS go with your first instinct. If you get even a little bit of fear or second thoughts about being with someone or doing something then don’t do it. I finally learned that it’s not just an “instict” but in reality it’s God telling you to listen to him before he has to throw you a lifesaver out before you drown.

All in all I WILL say though…I refuse to give up on love just because one or two guys may have treated me like crap. Love is a 2-way street and if you keep going through a bad relationship it’s not all you and it’s not all him…it’s that you need to just take time out to correct your weaknesses because God says…He doesn’t bring two half people in to be whole…he brings two whole people in to be better!

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