knowing is beautiful.

Tuesday, July 22, 2014 0 , , 3 kisses!

I know there are no guarantees in life. I know we need our struggles to appreciate any good that comes our way. I know looking in your eyes means so much more then a gentle touch. I know I’m not perfect. I know I’m addictive. I know society has contradictions. I know there are hypocritical people out there. I know karma get the best of us. I know the smooth taste of Raspberry Schweppes soothes my anxiety. I know rainy days are gloomy yet electrifies intimacy. I know anything’s possible once you put your mind to it. I know it’s best to ignore ignorance. I know you see me ignoring you. I know I am happy, content & satisfied with my life. I know I am blessed with a beautiful daughter. I know some may dislike me. I know majority love me. I know unfortunate people are more grateful for what they have. I know money doesn't make a man. I know a better body doesn't make a woman. I know I ...

believe.

When people don’t believe in you, you have to believe in yourself. Do you believe in knowing who you are & that you will remain that way forever? Just when you thought you had yourself all figured out, there’s always that one delusional individual that sees you in a totally different perspective than what you exude. As they are expressing their opinion of you, to you….you’re either going to agree or disagree, right? Well, what if most times you find yourself disagreeing? Does that mean you really don’t know yourself. All that you were projecting as your persona, was that all a waste of time? Or does it truly mean THEY really don't know YOU? Continue to believe that you’re the best because you ARE the best. And no one, I mean no one, can tell you otherwise. Always remember that no matter how useless you or anyone else think you are, you're still someone's reason to smile. Everyone deserves to be valued, respected and loved.

unanswered questions.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014 0 , , , , 0 kiss me?

Love isn’t meant to be solved. It’s just is. Take heed to these words if you ever find yourself feeling stuck, asking questions or doubting your relationship. Life & relationships are not about being frozen in place, wondering “Where do I go from here?”. It’s about growth, commitment, love and knowing your path. Sometimes you may just have to fight for love because the other party is simply scared of it. And if you’re the person who’s scared of love, scared of fighting to make things work, scared to make the slightest effort to earn that companionship, you need to do some thorough soul searching. Life is so much better to aim for your desires than not trying at all. I personally prefer to try, and maybe get rejected, than to not knowing at all if it would have worked. I know, I know…easier said than done. But remember: The hardest advice to follow is your own. No one is meant to be alone. Never believe that saying “We all die alone”. ...

no doubts.

Wednesday, January 1, 2014 0 , , , 0 kiss me?

Question no one; Answer to no one. I trust and accept all the good things that make their way into my experience. I trust and accept all the love offered me. I trust and accept that peace and happiness are my birthright. We’ve all experienced it– that moment when we look for the imperfection in what appears to be flawless. It’s that split-second when our wounded, frightened emotional self rises up, takes the helm, and announces, “This is too good to be true.” When that moment happens our perspective shifts from open-hearted acceptance to fear-based faithlessness. The experience can spark a witch-hunt for reasons to doubt someone’s words or distrust their actions, no matter how full of integrity they truly are. Of course what we’re really hunting for are reasons to sabotage the flow of good in our lives, either to avoid being vulnerable or to validate the belief that we aren’t worthy. Whatever the underlying reason, if we allow ourselves to proceed with sirens blaring, looking for evidence to support our negative storytelling, ...

happiness.

The foundation of our happiness is to have a positive sense of self-value. This also guarantee success within ourselves. When we doubt ourselves and allow people to treat us less than our value, we become worthless. Regardless the level of your esteem and security, always remember that you’re unique and you have a gift to offer. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If they do, they are just jealous because they never gotten the chance to know you and know what you’re about. Characteristics that they find as flaws, the next person will adore it. They will follow, monitor and even try to sabotage you just so their miserable ass can nitpick for something out of the ordinary. Let them continue. It means nothing to you & neither do they. You have an unique quality within yourself that they are lacking and instead of acknowledging that quality & giving credit when it’s due, they try their best to convince themselves (and possibly others) that you are the opposite & commence to bring you down. The ...

move on.

Great words of advice from a great woman I know: missjia. A lot of you "newly single & bitter" people need to take heed: In this lifetime, if you're lucky, you WILL experience a break up. I call it luck because even though the shit hurts, you will hopefully come out knowing more about yourself and even more about how to treat those who have the pleasure of being with you. A natural reaction to a break up (for some) is making that ex feel jealous, or give off the aura of living this really amazing life now that you're not with them. I've done that. You have too. But it's so breathtakingly amazing when you TRULY get to the point of not giving a third of a damn and just go about living your life for YOU. Stop living to impress someone who you're not even with anymore. Stop laying UNDER someone to get OVER someone else. Not only is it petty as hell but it speaks volumes about your ...