Love isn’t meant to be solved. It’s just is. Take heed to these words if you ever find yourself feeling stuck, asking questions or doubting your relationship. Life & relationships are not about being frozen in place, wondering “Where do I go from here?”. It’s about growth, commitment, love and knowing your path. Sometimes you may just have to fight for love because the other party is simply scared of it. And if you’re the person who’s scared of love, scared of fighting to make things work, scared to make the slightest effort to earn that companionship, you need to do some thorough soul searching. Life is so much better to aim for your desires than not trying at all. I personally prefer to try, and maybe get rejected, than to not knowing at all if it would have worked. I know, I know…easier said than done. But remember: The hardest advice to follow is your own.
No one is meant to be alone. Never believe that saying “We all die alone”. We WHO? You know who dies alone? Hateful people who treat everyone less than their worth & with ill intent. There was a point in my life where everything was broken, and only one thing was “fixed”. When I’ve fixed everything that was broken, the one “fixed” thing that was motivating me, inspiring me, provided hope, faith and courage, became the one thing that was broken. “Where is the balance? Is this a sign? Is God trying to tell me something, but because the music is too loud, I can’t hear him? Or do I subconsciously not want to hear him?” were questions I used to ask myself. I finally became inpatient and instead of waiting for those answers, I executed actions that allowed me to not ask those questions anymore. And like…the problems were fixed.
When I think about life and the events that occur in it, I used to always wonder what’s the real reason certain things happen. One year can be stress filled and then the next year is eventful. You know how someone can finish pouring their heart to you about a devastating situation and the only thing we’ll probably say is “everything happens for a reason“? Then you find yourself searching for that reason. To a lot of things. Why did certain people hurt me the way they did? Why weren’t you there for me when I needed guidance throughout my childhood? Why did she have to die the way she did? People come in your life as blessings, while others come in your life as lessons. Negative experiences happens in our lives to make us stronger. What won’t break us will make us. It seems like the more positive we get about things and our current situation, negativity tries it’s best to shove it’s head into our life and ruin it. Refuse to let the bad outweigh the good. I try my best to keep my focus on the good things like bubblegum, dick & weave sales.
Just kidding about dick. Not wait, I’m not.