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kim k needs to disappear.

I’m not saying she needs to disappear in a harmful way, but the woman clearly needs help. The only way people will start adoring her again is if she just drop this “act”, and lay low for awhile. And when I say “awhile”, I mean at least a year. Stop the reality shows, stop the interviews, stop the blogging, just STOP. You can run a business(es) without being all in the media light, and she is also rich enough to take a year break. She’s still sitting on money from her sex tape 4 years ago.

I used to adore Kim Kardashian. Her hair, her style, her pretty face. But now, she’s completely gone. It seems like she’s trying way too hard to keep her name in everyone’s mouth. Shame on me for falling for the bait as well.

As I was gathering my thoughts to type this, it dawned on me. She has NPD (narcissistic personality disorder).  Here are the details of the disorder:

¹Symptoms of this disorder include, but are not limited to:

  • Reacts to criticism with anger, shame, or humiliation
  • May take advantage of others to reach his or her own goal
  • Tend to exaggerate their own importance, achievements, and talents
  • Imagines unrealistic fantasies of success, beauty, power, intelligence, or romance
  • Requires constant attention and positive reinforcement from others
  • Easily becomes jealous
  • Lacks empathy and disregards the feelings of others
  • Obsessed with oneself
  • Mainly pursues selfish goals
  • Trouble keeping healthy relationships
  • Are easily hurt and rejected
  • Set unreal goals
  • Want “the best” of everything
  • Appear as tough-minded or unemotional

Narcissists also tend to be physically attractive on first impression, giving them advantages when first meeting people.

The symptoms of narcissistic personality disorder may seem similar to traits associated with strong self-esteem and confidence, but this is not the case. Narcissists have such an elevated sense of self-worth that they value themselves as inherently better than others. Yet, they have a fragile self-esteem and cannot handle criticism, instead putting other people down in order to validate themselves. People with healthy self-confidence do not have the same need to put themselves on a pedestal or to belittle others.

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i have questions.

The negativity that’s display in the media and on Twitter has been on a ridiculously high level lately. I ended up ranting on Twitter about it. Here are the excerpts:

Some people have no clue when to grow up. I’m so tired of seeing the same people doing the same shit, 5 years later. When do people get a “clue” to be mature? After age 25? After your 3rd abortion? After your 8th attempt to trap a ball player? How can you clown a female for shopping at TJ Maxx, when your whole outfit is from ROSS? How can you call women ugly all day long on Twitter, when the one you chose to have a child with looks like an elbow? How can you be disgusted at gold diggers when you go to All-Star Weekend every year in hopes of meeting an NBA player? How can you call him a “faggot” for _____ (enter anything that normal men do) when all you do is kiss a male rapper’s ass online? How do you make fun of a married couple because they met on Twitter when you met your man (who doesn’t want to marry you) on AOL? How do you hate someone so much to the point where you desperately try to be like them all the time? Where do you find the time to stalk someone when you have a spouse, children, pets, Rihanna’s cd, a job? Why is she fake because she rocks a weave & too much make-up, yet you’re not fake because of your ass shots & false lashes?

I bet there’s a man somewhere saying that he wouldn’t fuck Beyonce because he doesn’t like her knees. I can also bet that he’s Black, ugly, shiftless, and wants us to believe that he’s hetero. Most of the popular Black men on Twitter ain’t worth shit. Prove me wrong, or fight me for telling the truth. I’m not talking about anyone in particular. Just take a look around. You will eventually notice an insecure pattern, in groups. If you think anything I said tonight applies to you, it does. Being negative is “trendy” now & you’re insecure & impressionable.

I’m honestly tired of seeing/reading so much unwarranted slander between men vs women, women vs women, gays vs heteros & etc. When in truth, the real battle should be yourself vs yourself. Because that’s where the true problem lies. Everyone dogged out Beyonce for years for not having a baby. Now that she is, she’s “faking it”, or “looking for attention”. No one knows how to be happy for others anymore. People to watch out for: When you’re miserable they love being around you, but as soon as you find happiness, they’re gone. Sounds backwards, I know. But there are people out there that feed off of your failures because it makes THEM feel better. Do you know how to congratulate/compliment someone without adding a “but”?

A lot of people agreed with the things that I’ve said, so I was very appreciative for the positive feedback. A female that looks like my vagina ended up calling me a “cunt” though.

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leave your face alone.

While I’m not completely against a little bit of Botox here and there, a lot of women need to leave their face alone. I’m 32 years old and I have yet to inject anything into my face. Why? Because I simply don’t need it. All I use is some good ole water and a few skin care products. But you have 18 year olds getting Botox. You have women that are a size 2, getting 38DD breast implants. You have Black women with natural high cheek bones, getting cheek implants (ie: Janet Jackson, Jada Pinkett-Smith, Trey Songz, Vivica Fox, Lil Kim). You’re making your face look worse! There are some people who’ve received tasteful plastic surgery (Rob Lowe, Halle Berry, Kelly Rowland), however, people like Megan Fox really didn’t need it. And when you don’t need it, you end up looking worse than you did before. You may still be beautiful, but you look fake and stiff as hell.

What is it that make these woman keep going and going and going? Is it addictive? Is it the peer pressure in Hollywood? I just don’t understand why someone who’s already naturally beautiful, would go and take such a high risk at changing or destroying that look. It has to be some sort of deep embedded insecurity. It’s that same insecurity that will have them deny ever getting work done to their face or body.

Take Kim Kardashian for example. I used to love love love how she looked before. But now, she looks like a mannequin. She swears that she has never received any plastic surgery, never got work done on her face, and only tried Botox once. I beg to differ Kim.

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