So what if you don’t have a house? Your own car. A better paying job. A boyfriend. A girlfriend. A father that cares. A mother that’s not selfish. Long hair. Bigger boobs. Abs of steel. Smaller waist. Firm ass. Bigger penis. Nicer clothes. Smaller feet. Bigger feet. Learn to love and appreciate yourself for what you have and who you are now. Think of all the things and blessings you do have. You were chosen today to wake up. You’re still alive. Life may not be as great as you want it to be, but at least you still have life. Some people walk around with some of the same facetious griefs not realizing that they are overlooking so many blessings. Everyday I try to remember to thank God for all that he’s giving me. I know for a fact that he’s watching over me because of all the things He’s allowed me to survive through. We are going through a powerful economic decline, yet, we are still able to pay our rent, drive our cars, eat our dinners and go to sleep in a nice warm bed. 3 months ago I’ve seen so many blogs complaining about the $4.25 gas prices but now that gas is $1.65, I don’t see anyone rejoicing the new low prices. If you don’t learn to appreciate the things you have now, they will slowly disintegrate. You may not like your job, but at least you have a job. You may not like your college professor, but at least you’re able to attend college. Dinner may have been a bit overcooked, but at least you’re able to have a meal.
Relationships or the path to find love will have it’s rough moments. Don’t think for once that it’s “easy” to find love and to keep love. Both entities has it’s ups and downs. It’s your responsibility to embrace those that you have in your life. And if by chance they are not in your life anymore, cherish the memories and be thankful for the time that they were present in it. A lot of us would not be who we are today without that one person to show us the light of our ways. There are far too many times we are remembering the hurt and pain but can’t seem to remember the greater & more joyful things that we have all experienced. The road to finding love will have those potholes. There will be times where you will feel disappointed, rejected, disrespected, hurt, or even violated. Don’t let that stop you on your journey. You will shed a lot of tears and have many frustrating moments. Striving for your happiness will not come easy. There will be times where you are going to lay in bed at night and wonder if you’re ever going to fall hopelessy in love again. Wondering, is this marriage going to work? Am I a good father? Does he love me for who I am?
