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I used to be the kind of person that harp on things. For instance, if you called me a slut in January, I'd still bring  it up in June. But now I’m wise enough to know that life is way too short to be harping on the past. People deserve to be forgiven. Most deserve that 2nd chance. I find myself forgiving, but not forgetting. I’m happy to have experienced so many things that I’ve had the chance to experience in my life. Grateful for the people I’ve met & and appreciate what I’ve learned from the ones that I’ve lost. Whether it was my fault or theirs. Because with each experience, I take a piece of it with me. Negative or positive. I learn from the negatives & I bask in the positives. However, there are times where I wonder….was it all really worth it? Life is like photography. You develop from the negatives. I try to go by that quote and apply it to everything that happens. But sometimes, I ...