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that’s me.

“phenomenal woman”

Pretty women wonder where my secret lies
I’m not cute or built to suit a fashion model’s size
But when I start to tell them
They think I’m telling lies.
I say,
It’s in the reach of my arms
The span of my hips,
The stride of my step,
The curl of my lips.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

I walk into a room
Just as cool as you please,
And to a man,
The fellows stand or
Fall down on their knees.
Then they swarm around me,
A hive of honey bees.
I say,
It’s the fire in my eyes
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing of my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can’t touch
My inner mystery.
When I try to show them,
They say they still can’t see.
I say
It’s in the arch of my back,
The sun of my smile,
The ride of my breasts,
The grace of my style.
I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

Now you understand
Just why my head’s not bowed.
I don’t shout or jump about
Or have to talk real loud.
When you see me passing
It ought to make you proud.
I say,
It’s in the click of my heels,
The bend of my hair,
The palm of my hand,
The need of my care,
‘Cause I’m a woman
Phenomenally.
Phenomenal woman,
That’s me.

by Maya Angelou

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the break-up letter.

Remember feeling so violated, so mistreated, so heartbroken when the person you loved the most decided that you’re not good enough for them? They decided that someone else can play your role better? I remember a time where I felt that way. I don’t know why I allowed him to make me feel like that. But I do know that parting our ways was one of the best things that ever happened in my life. If it wasn’t for him, I wouldn’t be where I am right now in my current relationship. See, the mistakes I’ve made in my past relationships, helps me strengthen the one I’m in now. So instead of feeling like the victim, I feel like the victor. The things that your ex hated, your new love will adore. Cry once, tighten up and move on. Remember: Never torture the next because of your ex.

“You Had Me At Goodbye” – written by Chanel Cheeks.

I’m so glad you were able to find me to read this. I don’t recall if I ever got this off my chest. But for emotional efficiency, I’ll go ahead and knock this out again. That night you left me. Laying in my bed, alone. Not one teardrop is falling my my eyes. It was 9:15pm. And I thought, finally…I can breathe again. That’s what was going through my mind the night we parted. It was so suffocating when you were around. Now I can do my normal daily activities without you hovering over my shoulder. There were times where I would fake sleep just to avoid conversation with you. Looking at you, especially after you just picked a fight with me, became more and more painful each day. Or maybe it was just your damn face that did it. Without you even opening your mouth. Your insecurities. All of your blame. The finger pointing. The melodramatic way you always made me the bad guy. Your guilt. Your distrust. Your lies. Because you weren’t able to get over me, you became a lying loquacious idiot. A true bitch in the making.

I cared about you, even though you didn’t deserve it. I satisfied you, despite of how unattractive you were to me. I trusted you, even though from the beginning you lied to me. I loved you, still, no matter how many times you broke my heart. Sometimes I wonder what did I ever see in you. Or why is it that the truth was lying right in front of my face, but I chose to ignore it? I learned the hard way. Over and over again. Silly of me. Did you know that every time I asked you for the truth, I already knew it? Did you know that 90% of the time, I faked it? Did you know that I never respected your father? Did you know that I was still in love with someone else? Did you know that I was scared to have a future with you because I was frightened at the fact that my future was going to turn out just as ugly as you?

Remember the time you called me, begging for forgiveness and for us to have a second chance? I had you on speaker phone the whole time so my new man can hear you. We had a great laugh that night.

Okay, okay, so you broke up with me. You’re the bred winner, correct? Wrong. Have you ever sat and thought of everything that actually led up to that point? Or what about the way that I pretty much let you leave? That wasn’t unusual to you? I practically rushed you out of my life. Was it premeditated? Planned? A fantasy of mine? I don’t mean to interrupt your conception of how things ended but, it ended before you told me “goodbye”.

Is this in reference to you directly? Or to the one I was with before you? Hmm. Good question. I’ll tell you what…..if any of my statements that I have said hit home somehow, and made you feel really guilty, then yes…I was talking about you sweetheart. Maybe not this vent in it’s entirety. But you were definitely in my thoughts while I typed this. Get in where you fit in honey. I’m sure you’re already snug though.

I was actually excited when you said goodbye. Finally, I’ve gotten the chance to get out of a relationship, without being the bad guy. How cool is that! Huh?! Because from the moment we got together, I knew it wasn’t going to last. Thank you so much for letting me go. I wouldn’t have, what I have now, if you never lost a grip of your manhood. Or lack thereof. It’s amazing how one man’s lost, is another man’s gain. You whine and complain about how there are “no good women out there” yet when there was one right in your face, you didn’t know what to do with her. So you left. However, someone knew what to do with her though. And he does it very well.

Ultimately sweetie, saying goodbye to me, ended up being the moment where I loved you the most. Thank you.

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the ex.

What is it about that one particular “ex” that either makes your blood boil or your legs weak? They put us through so much shit, make us do things that compromise our self-worth and yet, we still run back to them. You bump into them at the mall and next thing you know, you’re exchanging numbers again. Come on over and watch a movie. Yes, I missed you. Yes, I missed us. Yeah, I have condoms. Yes, I still swallow. Want to know why? Because you’re lonely. Because we believe that they’re our “safety net”. Meaning, we don’t have to go through the “getting to know each other” process again. We’re under the impression that there’s some form of comfort there being that we’re already acquainted with each other. Mentally & sexually. We forget all of the bullshit they’ve put us through because we believe them when they say “I’ve changed“. Trust me, they didn’t change. The distance made you forget certain things. Like the way he put you down & told you you weren’t good enough for him. Or the way she used you for your money. Or the fact that he never introduced you to his parents. Or the way she always made excuses for her child’s father. They have recognized your vulnerability & took prey upon it. You need to remember why they are your ex in the first place before you even decide to take that path again. Most times, it happens right when you’ve broken it off with someone else. Instead of being alone, giving yourself time to heal & recuperate, you chose to run into the arms of someone who also hurt you before. Things are going to be good for the first few weeks, but ultimately, they are still no good for you. You can get good looks elsewhere. You can get good conversations elsewhere. You can get good dick/pussy elsewhere. Why only rely on that same person who has hurt you so much in the past? You think you can’t do better? You think there’s no one else out there that can treat you the way you deserve? It takes time. It takes reevaluating yourself. Give yourself time to think about what went wrong & the mistakes you’ve made. Once you realize that you can do better, you will. He or she will enter your life when you least expect it. You will be so relieved that you did not accept the 20% that you would have gotten, had you stayed with your ex. And that same “ex” will become the most unattractive person you know.

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