Men say that women have too much problems and a lot of issues. We gossip, betray and ridicule each other behind our backs. “We’re our worse enemies”. We bicker over everything and trip over small things. Oh yeah, let’s not forget that we argue too much right? Oh no wait, we must be on our period. Well why does it seem like it’s mostly men who have all these troubles? This isn’t some current observation either. For the past few years I’ve noticed more & more men carrying themselves as if they have more estrogen then us. Engulfed in everyone’s business other than their own & suck their teeth when told to mind they damn business. Kissing their homeboys ass 24/7, while they roll their eyes when a female acknowledges them. Matter fact, they’re also starting to lack more and more respect for us women and they are taking over every last bit of the “traits” they claim we carry. They don’t want to work for their own anymore. They want us to pay for their dinners. They want us to help heal their emotional scars. They want us to drive them everywhere. They want us to give them all the affection while they asses just lay there. Is this like an epidemic or am I just being delusional? They whine and complain about how there are “no good women out there” yet when there’s one right in their face, they don’t know what to do with her.

Women know exactly what you desire & we satisfy your needs. We know how to play the role. We already established our independence. Our careers. Our finances. We know when to bring half to the table. We know how to support & comfort. We also nurture and raise your children. We pretty much don’t ask for much anymore but companionship. But what do we get in return? A first class offer of some of your dry ass flaccid dick. Matter fact, at this day and age, we’re lucky if we even get offered the dick, being that your boy’s probably sucking it as we speak…..

Don’t get me wrong & confuse this current blog as if I’m “man bashing”. I am not. I absolutely love real men who are not afraid to swallow their pride, push aside their egos & embrace a woman for what she represents, where she’s coming from, who she is & where she’s going. I am currently in a relationship with a strong man and he was not afraid to start a new life with me. I’m simply putting it out there about the men who are really little boys. Fronting like they got it all under control. I am capable of seeing right through you. Just because I smile in your face everyday doesn’t mean that I’m not on to you. That’s called being polite & avoiding conflict. You guys knows exactly how to prey on certain women. You seek & probe for a particular weakness & then you prey on it. This is how us women get caught up with these men.

Overall, it’s too easy for us to know when you’re full of shit. The truth will always prevail. Presenting yourself as if you got your shit together, but you don’t. Acting like you’re a grown ass man, but still living with your mother with a suitcase filled of excuses of why you’re still there. You wanna know why it’s so easy for us to move on? Well frankly, because being with you makes us feel like lesbians. If we wanted to date a woman we would go and get the real thing. Not some gender born man acting like a damn lady. You’re not as irresistible as you think you are, you’re not completely over her, your dick ain’t that big (matter fact it stinks) and you are not God’s gift (despite what you think). Reevaluate yourself and figure out what do you really have to offer a woman before you talk out the side of your neck. Quit wasting everyone’s time and start acting like a gentleman. You call yourself a “king”? Prove it. You’re only making yourself look worse by disrespecting us. We have come a long way and well deserve the same amount of respect and gratitude you do. Never mind what your ex-girlfriend did, how the video hos dress or what ignorant “advice” your mother gave you. What has she done to you to deserve the disrespect you have given her? That’s exactly what most of us women are asking today. And I have yet to find the answer to that question….

So before you fix your lip to call your queen a bitch (or some random negative adjective)….you better take a good look into that wide ass mirror you got in your bathroom dude. The term bitch is dripped all over you. You.