Comments on: how dare you. http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/ The online diary of a verbally infectious, highly opinionated, woman. Tue, 07 Sep 2010 14:52:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: aileen http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-583 aileen Fri, 16 Jan 2009 09:12:10 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-583 "We’re always looking for the perfect relationship but look for the wrong qualities to fulfill one." Very well said, Chanel. You took the words right out of my mouth! :good: “We’re always looking for the perfect relationship but look for the wrong qualities to fulfill one.”

Very well said, Chanel. You took the words right out of my mouth! :good:

]]> By: Caroline http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-581 Caroline Fri, 16 Jan 2009 02:59:22 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-581 Chanel is awesome! :blogyj: If I could add my own experience to this, I've had to deal with guys who tried to mold me into their ideal girlfriend when I wasn't even physically attracted to them nor interested in a relationship! And you gotta love the tactics and excuses they make. I've been told that I don't act interested because I'm "afraid" of them, and then they try the lowest tactic of all, infantilization! "Oh, someone's making you act this way..." Whatever. I don't know why it's so hard for people to understand that I'm not interested in a relationship due to incompatibility. I've taken to just ignoring people. Chanel is awesome! :blogyj:

If I could add my own experience to this, I’ve had to deal with guys who tried to mold me into their ideal girlfriend when I wasn’t even physically attracted to them nor interested in a relationship! And you gotta love the tactics and excuses they make. I’ve been told that I don’t act interested because I’m “afraid” of them, and then they try the lowest tactic of all, infantilization! “Oh, someone’s making you act this way…” Whatever. I don’t know why it’s so hard for people to understand that I’m not interested in a relationship due to incompatibility. I’ve taken to just ignoring people.

]]> By: Tiffany http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-580 Tiffany Thu, 15 Jan 2009 08:19:19 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-580 This reminds me of TLC - Unpretty, I was just watching that video an hour ago. When Chilis video boyfriend was trying to make her get breast implants. People these days are so shallow, its just sad that people are raising their children to think that way. And than they grow up to teach their children to think that way. Not every girl is going to look like the hoes, oops my bad VIDEO VIXENS in the videos. From what I seen, usually when a guy talks really bad about a girl, theyre gay & undercover. Or maybe thats just bcuz im in LA lol. ? idk but the point is that. people are stupid, the end lol :blogyj: This reminds me of TLC – Unpretty, I was just watching that video an hour ago. When Chilis video boyfriend was trying to make her get breast implants.

People these days are so shallow, its just sad that people are raising their children to think that way. And than they grow up to teach their children to think that way. Not every girl is going to look like the hoes, oops my bad VIDEO VIXENS in the videos. From what I seen, usually when a guy talks really bad about a girl, theyre gay & undercover. Or maybe thats just bcuz im in LA lol. ? idk but the point is that. people are stupid, the end lol :blogyj:

]]> By: Nadine http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-579 Nadine Thu, 15 Jan 2009 05:05:48 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-579 totally agree with this. I think those people should read this post. heh. totally agree with this. I think
those people should read this post.
heh.

]]> By: cassie http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-578 cassie Thu, 15 Jan 2009 02:41:26 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-578 i agree! well said. :) :blogbb: i agree! well said. :) :blogbb:

]]> By: Nile http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-577 Nile Thu, 15 Jan 2009 01:21:55 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-577 Choosing to get into a relationship is like trying to be open. If someone, whether a man or woman goes into a relationship close-minded and wanting to play pottery with their partner, that is a relationship heading for doom. A relationship is all about trying to be open and accepting things that you normally do not do because you are willing to experience it, but not always have to agree with it. I get tired of that type of attitude. It is about being real. Sometimes the good guy might be the right guy even if he might not be over a 7 and have a lot of money. Sure, you would not want a partner to be a deadbeat... but to expect everything to be as 'the sky is the limit' is delusional. Well said blog! Choosing to get into a relationship is like trying to be open. If someone, whether a man or woman goes into a relationship close-minded and wanting to play pottery with their partner, that is a relationship heading for doom. A relationship is all about trying to be open and accepting things that you normally do not do because you are willing to experience it, but not always have to agree with it.

I get tired of that type of attitude. It is about being real. Sometimes the good guy might be the right guy even if he might not be over a 7 and have a lot of money. Sure, you would not want a partner to be a deadbeat… but to expect everything to be as ‘the sky is the limit’ is delusional.

Well said blog!

]]> By: Lita http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-576 Lita Wed, 14 Jan 2009 13:44:37 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-576 Well put!! :blog: Well put!! :blog:

]]> By: Thea http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-575 Thea Wed, 14 Jan 2009 06:52:26 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-575 Damn, well i see your still putting people in their place lolol. How ya been? Damn, well i see your still putting people in their place lolol. How ya been?

]]> By: lovy http://kisschanel.com/how-dare-you/#comment-574 lovy Wed, 14 Jan 2009 05:43:05 +0000 http://chanellie.com/?p=535#comment-574 :blogyj: :blogyj:

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