Karma’s a bitch, so why you keep fucking her?
People not being able to get over it: Why it seems as if the people that dislike you always find themselves most active in your life? They tell you (and others) all these things they don’t like about you, but still involve themselves in your surroundings. They observe how you carry yourself, who you hang out with, things you say and still complain about what you’re doing. Isn’t this like a form of stalking or an obsession? Then when you comment upon their actions, they have the nerve to tell you to “leave them alone”. Funny huh? I’m glad I became one of those people who sits around contentedly, ignoring how the people who dislike me behave. In any way possible they are crying for your attention. They want it. They need it. As much as they hate you, there’s something about you they yearn. If you dislike someone so much, then keep it moving. Why place yourself in their environment, just to complain about them more? I didn’t know an individual that’s not in your life can place so much affect into it. No matter how you look at it or try to downplay your actions, it’s still unhealthy. School, work, internet, church, club, bar…doesn’t matter. Unhealthy obsession. A healthy obsession would be focusing on solving a problem or focusing on something good. An unhealthy obsession is the constant focus of energy on something to the point that the obsession causes harmful consequences in your life (ie: emotions, negativity & etc.). They are both bad when they are to an extreme but to be persistent about something or someone that you don’t like is absurd. It’s a very annoying waste of time and if you don’t have control over yourself, to some degree, you will be ridiculed. Most of the time, obsessions come up when you’re trying to fill a sense of emptiness in your life. Thus the reason why when we disassociate ourselves from someone they tend to come around even more. I just don’t see the point in it all. If you’re not going to benefit from your actions why do it? If I hold no weight in your life, why concentrate so much in what I do? Why dislike me so much, yet, be so engulfed into what I am about? It makes no sense. Things I dislike the most I keep out of my sight and out of my mind. I don’t clutter my brain with extensive amounts of it.
If you spend more time figuring out your own life, instead of mine, you’ll be a much better person. Take the separation for what it is, and just step.
You can be jealous of someone for as long as you like. You can talk shit about them for as much as you like. You can try to break them down for as much as you like. At the end of the day, they will always have something that you don’t and they will continuing to strive to be better than you. So all of your weak attempts will go null and void, however, karma’s watching. Be careful of what you do to other people.
By T, June 1, 2009 at 10:28 am
Thank you for this…I have no other words to say but thank you…This is nice way to start off what I’m going to claim as the best week in a LONG time:-) Thank girl!
By alexis b. ™, June 1, 2009 at 11:09 am
I dunno about this one; Chanel Kardashian. You saying everything that happened / happens to me is all my fault?! Even the cruel & unusual shit I endured during my childhood?
As for Karma, I’ve made atleast 5 videos on the subject that never got uploaded. And everytime I’m either preaching Karma is REAL or Karma is a bunch of bullshit – that’s how conflicted I am about the subject. Almost as conflicted as I am about religion. Karma has different meanings in the Hindu, Buddhist, Jain and Sufi traditions. Then the translation into some Western meaning dilutes it even more, though it does correlate with the Christian concept, “You reap what you sow.” I would venture, that karma, in the sense of cause and effect, does happen. This does not necessarily mean that if you steal, you will then automatically be stolen from. All politicians and capitalists would be broke if that were true. So no, I don’t believe your enemies will always get what they deserve. I think that the idea is supposed to be that any action in itself will cause perfection or affliction. Thus, if you do something you believe to be right, you will be rewarded with gratification. If you act in a way that you believe wrong, you will be less happy and plagued by afflictions, such as paranoia, jealousy, loneliness, etc.
By chanel, June 1, 2009 at 11:11 am
You’re right. Let me rephrase some of my statements because I definitely don’t think ALL mishaps are a part of karma.
By Victoria, June 1, 2009 at 12:27 pm
I definitely believe in Karma, before I even knew what the word meant. That golden rule they preached back when we were younger always stuck with me. I’m so glad that you’ve decided to let the whole concept of revenge go, because all that will do is fuel the karma fire some more. It would end up being a never ending ending cycle, which is not what we want. Not at all.
By Shonni, June 1, 2009 at 12:38 pm
I have always been a true believer of Karma…true that some of us run into bad situations in our life. I believe that is part of life and can prove as a learning experience. However Karma is different and shouldn’t be taken lightly because that bitch does not play. I’m so happy and content with being consumed with taking care of myself and my family. Good entry lady =)
By Chans, June 1, 2009 at 1:14 pm
I believe in Karma but I don’t think all bad things that happen are related to it. Surly if someone in your surrounding dies you can’t just say ‘ooh karma I should have behaved better’ or something like that.
By Sage, June 3, 2009 at 12:10 pm
I can honestly say that I believe in Karma but sometimes when bad things come in loads, I don’t really believe it’s all Karma. I’ve been through a shitload of things and I’ve never really done anything to deserve any of it. I believe that sometimes, some things happen to make us react, period. I was never really enthused about much growing up but having things happen made me want more in life. I, too, have always believed that when people do bad things to people or in general, they ultimately pay the price in some way or another.