My standards aren’t high. Some men are just used to low class bitches.
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Oh I hear that.
What constitutes, “low class”, and what constitutes, “a bitch?”
Do we advance ourselves as women, when we denigrate other women?
Certainly, we all have our standards. That said, are we holding men equally as responsible for *their* behavior?
Simply put the reason for all the divorces and break ups and what not is because us women have become very submissive and compromising. We allow ourselves to let down our standards to be with a guy that we may feel sorry for.
So now you have a lot of mackless men who think they are the mack of all trade because they have strong beautiful women. But the truth be told as soon as we figure you out you’re back on the corner of below standards and single.
I find it funny that people say that women have high standards like that’s a bad thing. Are we supposed to have low standards?? Why should we as women settle for trash all for the sake of just having a man? I’m sorry but i’d much rather be single. Men deal with low class women because they don’t have to work hard to get those women.
I’ve been following your blogs recently because I think they’re inspiring. But this post made me lose a lot of respect for you.
You must feel guilty then.
Not necessarily. I just find you a bit hypocritical.
Yes. Because you’re a man and you’ve dated me before.
Um, no? I am a woman, and this is why I found your post irking because in your little autobiography, you said you don’t think you’re better than anyone else. Yet, in this blog post, you clearly indicated you are better than those “low-class” women. I mean, “low-class bitches”.
Who gives a fuck.
Haha, what is this Trisha girl talking about and exactly how are you being hypocritical? It just seems like she was searching for a reason to jab at you and she doesn’t have a good argument. Anyway, I think men go for whats easy, they dont want to put the work in needed to get a strong woman with class and standards. Many want someone who is weak and willing to give and do whatever they want just so they can keep their man. I have never been that girl and refuse to ever be.
My guess is, I’m supposed to feel like I’m on the same level as a low class bitch? If that’s the case, her low class ass can hold her breath. Only a “low class bitch” would feel the need to challenge me on that statement.
Amen.
I wouldn’t personally put it that harshly, but that’s because I’m a goddamn pussy. Still. Amen.
You can say that again. Trying telling men that. I was telling my girlfriend today that I saw a bride & groom in the park taking pictures. They looked so happy. But what about 2 years down the line. Will he or she still be in such bliss? So sad how the divorce rate is rising so quickly.
“Did they settle for each other or are they really in love?” Hmmm!
It’s been a while since I have been here and this post did strike me off guard because most other posts that I have read by you seem heartfelt and sincere.
I don’t take offense to this quote and I most definitely wouldn’t have dug deep enough to find the hypocrisy, but “Trisha” has a point. How can you say that you don’t feel as though you are better then anyone else, but then turn around an practically say you look down on someone because of their life choices by calling them “low class”?
As a person who blogs about such serious topics, I would honestly expect you to be more consistent with who you say you are.
Bottom line is, I don’t have to apologize for my thoughts. Fuck it.
I don’t expect you to apologize for your thoughts or who you are, I was just voicing my opinion, just as you did. Just because some past Jane said you’re so terribly wrong for thinking the way you do and that she despises you for it doesn’t mean that’s what I’m saying.
Understood. However, I think people fail to realize that I am not a robot. One day I may blog about uplifting woman and the next I will blog about disrespectful women. I talk about my bowel movements on twitter. I talk about Zac Efron at work. I am of many talents.
I think you (not you personally) would be lying if you don’t think you’re better than a particular person. Am I better than a mother of 3 who is working 12 hour shifts at McDonalds for only $5 per hour? No. Am I better than a prostitute that’s been hookering for 15 years because she wants to buy furcoats? Yes. Am I better than the crackhead that has changed his life around to better himself, who is now working at Wachovia? No. Am I better than a mother who chooses men, drugs & parties before her neglected child? Yes.
I’m sure you get the point now.
well put =)
I may have chosen a few different vocab words, but that makes sense. When your used to having $2 hamburger meat, fillet minot is gonna taste funny, right.
Well, I don’t fail to realize that you’re not a robot. I understand you are and a person does change depending upon their mood. One moment I may be talking to a friend and the next I might be going off like a ghetto bitch. I was just agreeing with a pointed out “flaw”.
By the way, I love watching these people kiss up on your ass, there are just so many of them. No, this is not me saying that EVERYONE who agrees with you is kissing your ass, but I am sure that there are a few.
hilarious!