Comments on: for the record. http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/ Tue, 31 Jan 2012 15:01:03 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Vanessa http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1224 Vanessa Sun, 12 Apr 2009 06:45:43 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1224 Agreed! I couldn't have said it better myself.. Although I do need to take some of that advice for myself.. Agreed! I couldn’t have said it better myself.. Although I do need to take some of that advice for myself..

]]> By: Lita http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1200 Lita Sat, 11 Apr 2009 13:26:01 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1200 I swear I think you can read my mind sometimes! This was an excellent post! I recently was told by someone that they can't change and was given the age old "love it or hate it" quote. So I chose to remove that person from my life because I found my self trying to change to appease that person, which made me unhappy and unfulfilled. I've invested too much time in the past for people who could not contribute a damn thing to me or my well-being and its just not tolerable anymore. Thanks for putting things in perspective! I swear I think you can read my mind sometimes! This was an excellent post! I recently was told by someone that they can’t change and was given the age old “love it or hate it” quote. So I chose to remove that person from my life because I found my self trying to change to appease that person, which made me unhappy and unfulfilled. I’ve invested too much time in the past for people who could not contribute a damn thing to me or my well-being and its just not tolerable anymore. Thanks for putting things in perspective!

]]> By: Amber http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1167 Amber Fri, 10 Apr 2009 18:44:00 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1167 I've found a lot of the times, people get themselves into these situations where even if they want to change they dont know how... or maybe thats just what i want them to be going through. But your absolutely right if no one ever needed to change then everyone's life must be running really smoothly.. and clearly in this day and age thats just not the case. Being put into those situations where you try and make it work so someone can stay in your life and your giving 80 percent while they give 20, makes me wanna cry. But what can you really do?... besides pray for and love them. I’ve found a lot of the times, people get themselves into these situations where even if they want to change they dont know how… or maybe thats just what i want them to be going through. But your absolutely right if no one ever needed to change then everyone’s life must be running really smoothly.. and clearly in this day and age thats just not the case. Being put into those situations where you try and make it work so someone can stay in your life and your giving 80 percent while they give 20, makes me wanna cry. But what can you really do?… besides pray for and love them.

]]> By: Tai http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1163 Tai Fri, 10 Apr 2009 15:38:37 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1163 I've changed. People are suppose to change and I know I have said "that's just who I am" and etc but I take it back. I change. I have changed. Guys are dickheads. :ughhh: They make me sick but I love em and keep moving. I’ve changed. People are suppose to change and I know I have said “that’s just who I am” and etc but I take it back. I change. I have changed. Guys are dickheads. :ughhh: They make me sick but I love em and keep moving.

]]> By: Kaz http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1133 Kaz Thu, 09 Apr 2009 21:28:57 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1133 I absolutely agree with you! This post is amazing. I hate people who say, "Well I/he/she can't change, it's they way I am/they are". It's even more annoying when people keep saying they will change and do nothing. It's a load of rubbish, if you really want to and can put in the effort then yes, you can change! You just have to have the motivation and really want it deep down inside. Be if for love/family/the best for you etc, if you want to change then you can. I absolutely agree with you! This post is amazing. I hate people who say, “Well I/he/she can’t change, it’s they way I am/they are”. It’s even more annoying when people keep saying they will change and do nothing.

It’s a load of rubbish, if you really want to and can put in the effort then yes, you can change! You just have to have the motivation and really want it deep down inside. Be if for love/family/the best for you etc, if you want to change then you can.

]]> By: Chelsey http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1104 Chelsey Thu, 09 Apr 2009 04:45:25 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1104 I honestly don't think there is anything that pisses me off more than somebody who claims to love spout off about "this is just how I am" or "you knew I was this way when we first met." Bullshit! Somebody should be willing to climb any mountain or swim the entire Atlantic fucking Ocean for love. Just something else to throw on the pile of relationship frustrations. I honestly don’t think there is anything that pisses me off more than somebody who claims to love spout off about “this is just how I am” or “you knew I was this way when we first met.” Bullshit! Somebody should be willing to climb any mountain or swim the entire Atlantic fucking Ocean for love. Just something else to throw on the pile of relationship frustrations.

]]> By: Amber http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1056 Amber Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:01:34 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1056 As you age, you learn what stuff really matters. I know I have. People seem to take up less and less space on that "stuff that matters" list. Hmph. Funny right? As you age, you learn what stuff really matters. I know I have. People seem to take up less and less space on that “stuff that matters” list.

Hmph.

Funny right?

]]> By: Philly's Andrea http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1054 Philly's Andrea Tue, 07 Apr 2009 20:41:54 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1054 like T.D. Jakes said, "You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it." this is exactly where i was going with my last post. ~A~ like T.D. Jakes said, “You’ve got to know when it’s over. Let me tell you something. I’ve got the gift of good-bye. It’s the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It’s not that I’m hateful, it’s that I’m faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He’ll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don’t need it.”

this is exactly where i was going with my last post.

~A~

]]> By: T http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1050 T Tue, 07 Apr 2009 19:30:18 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1050 That was just.....well...i can't really find the words to say. That was exactly what I was thinking about when I woke up this morning. Moving on from this current situation and not focusing on the possibilities of the next...just dealing with and going through what I am now. I tell you girl...you ALWAYS seem to be feeling what I'm feeling when I come here and read your post. Are we long lost twins of the earth???? That was just…..well…i can’t really find the words to say.

That was exactly what I was thinking about when I woke up this morning. Moving on from this current situation and not focusing on the possibilities of the next…just dealing with and going through what I am now.

I tell you girl…you ALWAYS seem to be feeling what I’m feeling when I come here and read your post. Are we long lost twins of the earth????

]]> By: caps http://kisschanel.com/for-the-record/#comment-1049 caps Tue, 07 Apr 2009 18:06:36 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=848#comment-1049 i can dig it. sad that some people consciously choose to remain in suspended in infancy. They dont want to grow up, they want to be the toys r us kids. Afraid of being responsibile, afraid of being accountable. Evolution is essential to growth and if a person rejects it, they are going against the grain of nature. Which probably attests to the regression of our society. profoundly written cheekz i can dig it. sad that some people consciously choose to remain in suspended in infancy. They dont want to grow up, they want to be the toys r us kids. Afraid of being responsibile, afraid of being accountable. Evolution is essential to growth and if a person rejects it, they are going against the grain of nature. Which probably attests to the regression of our society.

profoundly written cheekz

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