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leave your face alone.

While I’m not completely against a little bit of Botox here and there, a lot of women need to leave their face alone. I’m 32 years old and I have yet to inject anything into my face. Why? Because I simply don’t need it. All I use is some good ole water and a few skin care products. But you have 18 year olds getting Botox. You have women that are a size 2, getting 38DD breast implants. You have Black women with natural high cheek bones, getting cheek implants (ie: Janet Jackson, Jada Pinkett-Smith, Trey Songz, Vivica Fox, Lil Kim). You’re making your face look worse! There are some people who’ve received tasteful plastic surgery (Rob Lowe, Halle Berry, Kelly Rowland), however, people like Megan Fox really didn’t need it. And when you don’t need it, you end up looking worse than you did before. You may still be beautiful, but you look fake and stiff as hell.

What is it that make these woman keep going and going and going? Is it addictive? Is it the peer pressure in Hollywood? I just don’t understand why someone who’s already naturally beautiful, would go and take such a high risk at changing or destroying that look. It has to be some sort of deep embedded insecurity. It’s that same insecurity that will have them deny ever getting work done to their face or body.

Take Kim Kardashian for example. I used to love love love how she looked before. But now, she looks like a mannequin. She swears that she has never received any plastic surgery, never got work done on her face, and only tried Botox once. I beg to differ Kim.

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how to love a woman.

“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect – you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break – her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.”

– Bob Marley

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ketchup packets.

“If anyone is unfamiliar with Draya Michele,  she dated Chris Brown for a while and bragged to the whole world via her blogs and twitter about her extravagant life style. She tweeted photos of herself at basketball games & clubs across the country as well as bragging about her first class trips, shoe/purse game & Bentleys. Well, it was revealed that she was arrested for endangering her child.”

Today, she is one of the women that’s on the new VH1 show “Basketball Wives LA“. She’s never been married. Never been engaged. Never been in a serious relationship with an NBA player. Doesn’t have a child with one. But she’s on this show as a “mistress”. I don’t understand Hollywood. There are so many hard working mothers out there, trying to make a honest living by becoming an actress, producer or even a fashion designer, but instead, they give the shine to a woman that was arrested just a few months ago, for child endangerment to be part of a reality television to further her irrelevant career as a groupie/whore/booty model.

Her 7 year old son was home alone night after night after night eating sugar & ketchup packets, while she shook her ass at the strip club to pay for her Forever 21 outfits. Many people on Twitter have called her out on being a neglectful mother, just for her to respond that the police are lying because they are “jealous” of her. Why would a regular policeman make up a story? And if so, wouldn’t she have sued the police department and the local newspapers for slander?

I’m not about to make this some long drawn out post about how mothers that neglect their children are worthless pieces of shit. It’s sad that the REAL independent, single mothers out here are not getting the full exposure and support that they rightfully deserve. I just wanted to place an FYI out there about how idiotic television producers are to support women like this, while the great ones are out here struggling for their own. 

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how to love.

Even though Lil Wayne has a history of fathering children from multiple women, his newest video “How To Love” is a subliminal to all women out there that are struggling with self-esteem issues that derive from broken homes, abuse and misguidance from our own mothers. I think this is a beautiful video, with a beautiful message.

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esteem booster.

The foundation of our happiness is to have a positive sense of self-value. This also guarantee success within ourselves. When we doubt ourselves and allow people to treat us less than our value, we become worthless. Regardless the level of your esteem and security, always remember that you’re unique and you have a gift to offer. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If they do, they are just jealous because they never gotten the chance to know you and know what you’re about. Characteristics that they find as flaws, the next person will adore it. They will follow, monitor and even try to sabotage you just so their miserable ass can nitpick for something out of the ordinary. Let them continue. It means nothing to you & neither do they. You have an unique quality within yourself that they are lacking and instead of acknowledging that quality & giving credit when it’s due, they try their best to convince themselves (and possibly others) that you are the opposite & commence to bring you down.

I , for one, refuse to allow that happen to me. I wake up everyday just knowing that I am fabulous. No, I don’t think I’m better than you. No, I don’t think I’m prettier than you. And no, I am not vain. I am able to recognize that I have something valuable to give the world and no matter how many people wish I didn’t have so many talents that make me the person that I am today, they will never dim my light that shines from within. If you’re insecure or have low self-esteem, keep rehearsing that in your mind. Like I stated before, what you may find “wrong” within yourself, there’s someone out there that will embrace that and love you for you. Take no shorts, cut down on the compromising and never settle for less. Believe in who we are & what we do. Look up to & trust ourselves to make it through the difficulties just knowing that we can. We are the only ones who are responsible for building that self-confidence. Don’t do it for him. Don’t do it for her. Don’t try to prove them wrong. Don’t worry about their negative opinion. We’re all are equipped & capable of getting to where we want to be as long as we create a positive pattern of self-worth. Continue to believe you’re the best because you are the best. And no one, I mean no one…..can tell you otherwise.

Remember: Success and happiness is the best revenge. The more successful you get, the more people will try to bring you down.

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