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smile.

I’m not into Gospel music, but this one song by Kirk Franklin always get me into good spirits. What caught my attention about the song “Smile” were the words. I was busy cleaning up my house one day and my television was on VH1Soul. Normally I end up changing the channel after a “I am not my hair” type of song comes on, but this day, I was tuning it out. Until this song came on and it completely grasp my attention. The video is beautiful, the lyrics are beautiful, the song is beautiful. This definitely works if you’re ever feeling down.

Kirk Franklin
“Smile”

I dedicate this song to recession,
depression and unemployment.
This song’s for you.

Today’s a new day, but there is no sunshine.
Nothing but clouds, and it’s dark in my heart
and it feels like a cold night.

Today’s a new day, but where are my blue skies.
Where is the love and the joy that you promised me
tell me it’s alright.

(I’ll be honest with you)
I almost gave up, but a power that I can’t explain,
fell from heaven like a shower now.
(When I think how much better I’m gonna be when this is over)

I smile, even though I hurt see I smile,
I know God is working so I smile,
Even though I’ve been here for a while
I smile, smile…
It’s so hard to look up when you’ve been down.
Sure would hate to see you give up now.
You look so much better when you smile, so smile.

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weave.

So many women have misconceptions about the type of weave to purchase and how to maintain it. A responsible woman can keep a good sew-in weave for at least 3 months. Yes, 3 months. I usually keep my sew-in for 3-4 months, depending on the season (I can go 4 months in the winter).  I get a lot of questions about the type of weave I get, how to take care of it, and etc. This blog is to answer all of those inquiries.

Indian Hair: If you’re looking for the best quality hair, you will need to make an investment. Virgin Indian Hair is the best grade of hair to purchase. The term “virgin” means unprocessed, chemical free. The hair is at the most natural state. It came straight off of an Indian donor’s scalp the way it is. Virgin Indian Hair can cost anywhere between $300-$750 (that’s for 2-3 bundles). The term “bundle” mean the bulk of hair, which is usually 4-6 ounces. 1 bundle is the equivalent to 1 pack of beauty supply store hair. 1 bundle (anywhere from 14 inches – 26 inches) cost between $125 – $250. Indian hair can also be dyed or bleached. Indian hair can be reused for at least 1 year. When your stylist sew it in, she needs to sew it without cutting the tracks, otherwise it will be hard to remove and reuse again.

  1. Curly or “Spanish Wave”: This hair is naturally curly. It’s the “wet & go” look. The hair is very versatile and can be worn naturally curly or straightened with a flat iron. This grade of hair is the hardest to get bone straight.
  2. Wavy or “Body Wave”. This hair is very wavy and light. It can be worn wavy, straightened with a flat iron or curled with a curling iron. This is best type of hair to get if you’re looking for something to give you many looks, without too much hassle.
  3. Straight: This hair is straight with a subtle natural wave to it. The hair is very flat and suggested to be cut in layers for body. The only way you will get the supreme wavy look with this hair is if you braid it into 2 braids for 8 hours.
Malaysian Hair: This hair has a more “relaxed” look and not as silky as Indian hair. This is for people who have a more coarse texture of hair. Same rules apply.

Packaged Hair: If you’re not ready to purchase Indian hair, you can purchase packaged hair from your local beauty supply store. Packaged hair can cost anywhere between $75 – $150 per pack. You cannot process this hair with dyes or bleaching and you can only use it once. The way the hair came, is the way you need to wear it. Unless it’s straight and you can curl it sometimes with a hot curler. The best packaged hair to get is Saga Gold or Saga Platinum.

Shampoo: John Frieda Frizz Ease Smooth Start Shampoo – Be gentle with the hair when you wash it. Do not wringe, pull or squeeze tightly. This prevents the hair from breaking away from the weft (that’s what cause the shedding). Wash and rinse 2 times.

Conditioner: John Frieda Frizz Ease Smooth Start Repairing Conditioner – Leave it in for 5-10 minutes then rinse out thoroughly.

Scalp Treatment: Squeeze Infusium 23 Leave-In conditioner into your roots so it can moisturize your scalp/real hair, and to prevent flakes/itching. Try not to let all of it get into your actual weave. Nothing bad will happen, but the less product you leave in the weave, the better the outcome.

Coloring/Bleaching: Bigen is the safest product to dye Virgin Indian Hair black. 3 bottles, leave the dye in for about 3-4 hours though. My weave is still silky, didn’t lose it’s texture, and it’s not tangled. It’s best to use because it has no ammonia or hydrogen peroxide. Bleaching the weave does the same exact thing as it does when you bleach your own hair: it strips the hair of it’s color and thickness. I would highly advise against bleaching, but if you must, purchase the lightest color weave possible so you wouldn’t have to bleach it as much.

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32 undeniable truths

1. I think part of a best friend’s job should be to immediately clear your computer history if you die.
2. Nothing sucks more than that moment during an argument when you realize you’re wrong.
3. I totally take back all those times I didn’t want to nap when I was younger.
4. There is great need for a sarcasm font.
5. How the hell are you supposed to fold a fitted sheet?
6. Was learning cursive really necessary?
7. Map Quest really needs to start their directions on # 5. I’m pretty sure I know how to get out of my neighborhood.
8. Obituaries would be a lot more interesting if they told you how the person died.
9. I can’t remember the last time I wasn’t at least kind of tired.
10. Bad decisions make good stories.

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i have questions.

The negativity that’s display in the media and on Twitter has been on a ridiculously high level lately. I ended up ranting on Twitter about it. Here are the excerpts:

Some people have no clue when to grow up. I’m so tired of seeing the same people doing the same shit, 5 years later. When do people get a “clue” to be mature? After age 25? After your 3rd abortion? After your 8th attempt to trap a ball player? How can you clown a female for shopping at TJ Maxx, when your whole outfit is from ROSS? How can you call women ugly all day long on Twitter, when the one you chose to have a child with looks like an elbow? How can you be disgusted at gold diggers when you go to All-Star Weekend every year in hopes of meeting an NBA player? How can you call him a “faggot” for _____ (enter anything that normal men do) when all you do is kiss a male rapper’s ass online? How do you make fun of a married couple because they met on Twitter when you met your man (who doesn’t want to marry you) on AOL? How do you hate someone so much to the point where you desperately try to be like them all the time? Where do you find the time to stalk someone when you have a spouse, children, pets, Rihanna’s cd, a job? Why is she fake because she rocks a weave & too much make-up, yet you’re not fake because of your ass shots & false lashes?

I bet there’s a man somewhere saying that he wouldn’t fuck Beyonce because he doesn’t like her knees. I can also bet that he’s Black, ugly, shiftless, and wants us to believe that he’s hetero. Most of the popular Black men on Twitter ain’t worth shit. Prove me wrong, or fight me for telling the truth. I’m not talking about anyone in particular. Just take a look around. You will eventually notice an insecure pattern, in groups. If you think anything I said tonight applies to you, it does. Being negative is “trendy” now & you’re insecure & impressionable.

I’m honestly tired of seeing/reading so much unwarranted slander between men vs women, women vs women, gays vs heteros & etc. When in truth, the real battle should be yourself vs yourself. Because that’s where the true problem lies. Everyone dogged out Beyonce for years for not having a baby. Now that she is, she’s “faking it”, or “looking for attention”. No one knows how to be happy for others anymore. People to watch out for: When you’re miserable they love being around you, but as soon as you find happiness, they’re gone. Sounds backwards, I know. But there are people out there that feed off of your failures because it makes THEM feel better. Do you know how to congratulate/compliment someone without adding a “but”?

A lot of people agreed with the things that I’ve said, so I was very appreciative for the positive feedback. A female that looks like my vagina ended up calling me a “cunt” though.

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you’re better than that.

One of the best kept secrets in life is your confidence. However, somebody, somewhere tricked you into believing you’re not good enough. They told you that there were certain things you could not do because of who you were. Who you’re trying to be. Who you are. Someone else told you that only certain people could do or be the very thing you wanted to be and you did not fit the bill (ie: successful lawyer, famous actor, a great girlfriend, a good father, etc). You presented yourself & your goals to them & they turned you down and made you feel like you were not one of those people that can achieve those things. With a sleight-of-hand manipulation of facts, someone made you think you didn’t have what it takes, so they took it. Someone told you that you were slow, or lazy; too fat, too skinny; crazy or too quiet; or just flat out not good enough. How dare they? And you believed that? They done tricked you into believing what they wanted you to believe. They knew who you were and knew you had no idea…no idea that you could have placed a stop to everyone (or one individual) from convincing you that you’re just not good enough. You know better than that. Where’s your confidence? Your esteem? Your security? You gonna let them tell you what you’re capable of doing and achieving? I’m going to go ahead and guess that these same people are jealous of you. Filled with envy due to the fact that they were unable to fulfill their desires. So instead of encouraging someone else who has that chance or aspiration, they try their best to destroy the dream. Regardless of what anyone says, each of us brings to the world unique talents, gifts and abilities. Even if you don’t know what it is, or value what you do, someone, somewhere, will benefit from your presence. No one can do what you do exactly the way you do it. For every personal goal that I’ve tried to accomplish there was always at least one thing (or person) trying to get in my way. But I’m no fool. I looked beyond that and kept striving to succeed. The only way to get where you want to be is to do what needs to be done to get there. Regardless of what people say or think of you.

Regardless of what anyone says, each of us brings to the world unique talents, gifts and abilities. Even if you don’t know what it is, or value what you do, someone, somewhere, will benefit from your presence. No one can do what you do exactly the way you do it. So if she tells you you’re not good enough for her because of your “flaws”, so be it. If he tells you that you’re not “glamorous” enough for him, oh well. Always remember and never forget, you are just as unique and as valuable as the other. Confidence is all about knowing what you’re worth naturally. You don’t need a man/woman “reassuring” you everyday to feel like you’re worth it. Never allow anyone or anything to limit your mind because of your race, color, gender expression, style, fashion taste, work experience, non-existent college degrees or body type. Trust me…you’re not missing out on anything. It’s their loss. Not yours. When you do what you do, exactly the way you do it, someone will adore you just for that. Without reading all the fine print.

This blog was originally posted in April 2009. 

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