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Cyber Stalking- Stalking on the Internet

Recently there has been an emergence of a new kind of stalking, commonly referred to as cyber stalking, which simply means the use of the Internet, e-mail, or other online, electronic communication devices to stalk another person. Cyber stalking takes on many forms such as sending e-mail to the victim, impersonating the victim in chat rooms and e-mail messages, and spreading untruths in a chat room. The Internet is a very efficient and inexpensive way for cyber stalkers to intimidate, terrorize, and harm their victims while at the same time remaining anonymous.

The internet has made it way too easy for people to stalk you. Stalkers always claim they’re not stalking you, but is able to comment on everything you ever said or did on the internet. They’re able to quote what you tweeted. They’re able to find your old pictures. They’re able to find all of your friends that are online too and they start keeping up with them. They save your blogs, pictures and blood type. And here’s the hypocritical portion of everything: They get upset when they see that you found out about them & like to tell YOU that YOU have no life for checking up on THEM checking up on YOU (did I lose you there?). I will admit, I check on my stalkers from time to time. Why? So I can be kept abreast on the fact that they are still stalking me. Right now, I am aware of 5 people that are currently internet stalking me (I’m sure there’s more). But the only reason I know about these 5 is that at some point, each one have lost their cool & blew their cover by addressing me. One is dated as far back as 2002 but she’s slowed down immensely (at least I think). Another I believe started back in 2006, but she stalks a few other people as well so she stalks me whenever it’s my turn on her schedule. Then I have a bloated blogger from 2009 that started stalking me as soon as I rejected him. A self-proclaimed “doctor” that knows the first day my boyfriend and I met (from stalking my tweets). And last but not least, the one that’s been actively stalking me since 2004 & is still stalking me to date. She is able to tell when I am ovulating. Where do they find the time?

You what a stalker’s favorite rebuttal is: You’re a “nobody”. If I’m such a nobody then why are you keeping up with my nobody ass? “You’re a nobody!” – Yet they can name who you’re fucking, what school you went to, what club you go to, the model and year of the car you drive, saved 30 of your pictures, know what day your sister got married, know how many hours you worked this week. Sheesh. When do you brush your teeth? I mean, according to you, I have no life. I’m ugly, worthless and a nobody. So, judging by this concept, why are you concentrating on me so much? Who really sits at home and concentrate on a “nobody”?

Stalkers will also try to flip it on you and say you are the one stalking them. However, why is it that they will know a lot about you but you know nothing about them? And God forbid they get a hold of who you’re friends with and who are your enemies. They will try to befriend both ends of the stick. Mainly the enemies, so they can feel like what they’re doing is right and

the f word.

November 20, 2010
7 Comments
internet, reality
go do some push ups, society, twitter files

And no I’m not talking about “fuck”. I’m talking about “faggot”. The gays on the internet (especially on Twitter) are radicals. They remind me of PETA so much. Just because a woman complains about the high volume of gay men in Atlanta, doesn’t mean she’s gay bashing. She’s just tired of the limited options she has. If you call your friend a “faggot” because he’s being overly emotional, that doesn’t mean he’s gay bashing. That means he’s acting like a woman. Bottom line is, Just because someone says “faggot” doesn’t mean they’re gay bashing.

Someone said that “faggot” is equivalent to “nigger”, but it’s not. It’s not nor will it ever be the same thing or as offensive. The only law against gays is marriage. Back in the day, you had a SLEW of laws & legal deaths against “niggers”. I don’t see gays being hosed down by the police. I don’t see signs everywhere stating “NO GAYS ALLOWED”. Gays were never stripped their right to vote. Gays weren’t segregated from the rest of the society. Gays weren’t lynched. No one sailed to another country, kidnapped a few gays, and turned them into slaves. Gays never suffered oppression.

I understand the term “faggot” is offensive, but how offensive is it if you’re being playful? Okay, so you don’t want anyone to use the term “faggot”. It’s hurtful and offensive, correct? If that’s the case, is it fair to say that you’re “women bashing” if you call someone a “bitch”? Are you bashing fat people if you call someone a “fat ass”? Furthermore, the same gay men that get offended when they see someone use the term “faggot”, are calling women “bitch” and “cunt” all day long. Talk about double standards.

If you’re going to play victim to a word when it’s used in a joking matter, make it across the board for ALL derogatory terms and censor yourself as well.

“If you can take a dick, you can take a joke.”

blockheads.

“Sorry, you are not authorized to see this status.”

If you clicked on a link to someone’s tweet on Twitter and you get this message, that means you are blocked. More than likely, you have done something in the past for them to block you. More than likely, you are not fond of each other. More than likely, you kept @replying them with cheesy pick-up lines or lame catty comments. But why get upset when you find out someone has blocked you? People get carried away about being blocked. And trust me, don’t think it’s because they’re scared of you. No one is scared of you. You’re fucking annoying. There is a difference. Take being blocked like when a guy doesn’t call you after having sex. Or when a girl ignores you when you try to talk to her. Funny thing is, the people that complain so much about you blocking them, can’t stand your ass. They don’t find you funny, they hate the things you say and find you very offensive. So what’s the problem with that same person BLOCKING you from viewing those things that piss you off the most?

“That bitch blocked me. I hate her. She always tweeting about _____.” – Huh? I’m confused. If you dislike someone so much, why do you keep checking up on them? How do you know what they’re “always doing” if you’re not always checking up on them? I hate roaches. With a passion. But do you see me going into crack houses, looking underneath the sofas for them fuckers, just to watch them crawl around so I can complain about them? Hell no.

If someone blocks you, get over it and leave them alone. Move on. Let it go. Make a sandwich. Pick some fruit. Squeeze a blackhead. And for the love of Beyonce, quit refreshing their timeline and making subliminal tweets about what THEY are tweeting about. You damn BLOCKHEAD.

“hiatus”.

November 6, 2010
1 Comment
internet, thoughts
blogs, nosey, Prozac

Personal bloggers¹ who shut down their whole site and claim they’re on “hiatus” confuse me. Why? Because the only thing you won’t be around to do is blog every other day. Everything else on your site remains the same. Why not leave your website open for viewers, like myself, to rifle through your archives to see if this is really just an attempt to create attention to yourself? So we can view your picture gallery of your freshly painted nails or the new phone you bought. So we can read that poem you wrote about terrorism. You know… so we can find that one particular blog post from 3 weeks ago stating how you hate your boyfriend, hate your job and how you have all of these problems you’re unable to handle. So then, I we, the visitor, can dissect what the real issue is? Truth be told, there’s no reason for a blog to go on hiatus. You can leave a little note at the end of your last blog to state that you won’t be updating for awhile. But to shut down your whole site is ludicrous. Leave your site open and accessible for little noseys like me who want to read your old blog entries from 2003.

¹ Regular people who use the internet to post their thoughts and get feedback from random strangers and their fellow ass kissers.

you care.

The people that always preach about “not giving a fuck”… really do give a fuck. Pay close attention to their actions. “I don’t give a fuck!!!” – While posting blogs, tweets, videos & mass emails wanting to know how people feel about you. Blowing up their phone & sending them text messages over & over again, with no response, whilst preaching about “not giving a fuck”. Being highly sensitive, spazzing out over the smallest things, bitching about minuscule events that occur… yeah you sure don’t “give a fuck” alright. Always playing the victim, always wanting to be heard, hate being misunderstood, can’t handle the truth. Nope, you “don’t care”.

Here’s a hint: People that truly don’t give a fuck, are the silent ones. The ones who exude strength & refrain from complaint. There’s nothing wrong with caring. However, the problem starts when you feel guilty about it and try to hide it from others.

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