Comments on: asking for too much? http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/ Fri, 04 May 2012 23:42:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.2 By: Marc Digital http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-966 Marc Digital Sun, 05 Apr 2009 05:51:37 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-966 You're a beast! They can't handle you Cha Cha! lmaooooooo HELLO BROOKLYN!!! You’re a beast! They can’t handle you Cha Cha! lmaooooooo

HELLO BROOKLYN!!!

]]> By: Charity http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-940 Charity Sat, 04 Apr 2009 03:53:53 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-940 I really don't think you're asking too much, it all seems reasonable to me. Ultimately though, only you can really say whether or not you think you are. As for me I'm quite content staying at home working freelance, while my hubby goes to work. Of course, I'd be willing to work outside the home if I had to. Can't say what will happen when we add children to the equation though. I really don’t think you’re asking too much, it all seems reasonable to me. Ultimately though, only you can really say whether or not you think you are.

As for me I’m quite content staying at home working freelance, while my hubby goes to work. Of course, I’d be willing to work outside the home if I had to. Can’t say what will happen when we add children to the equation though.

]]> By: Jenny http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-934 Jenny Fri, 03 Apr 2009 19:53:51 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-934 Isn't it a natural thing to ask for these things? Don't people in other countries ask for a good hunter in a man, in order for him to marry the girl (etc)? What about the other way around? I hear grown men who want a wife who can "cook and clean" as if he couldn't do it for himself. But like I said before, isn't it a natural thing to look for a certain partner that fit the aspects you are looking for? People make me crazy. :ughhh: Isn’t it a natural thing to ask for these things? Don’t people in other countries ask for a good hunter in a man, in order for him to marry the girl (etc)?

What about the other way around? I hear grown men who want a wife who can “cook and clean” as if he couldn’t do it for himself. But like I said before, isn’t it a natural thing to look for a certain partner that fit the aspects you are looking for?

People make me crazy. :ughhh:

]]> By: Ashie http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-880 Ashie Tue, 31 Mar 2009 06:14:21 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-880 I completely understand where you're coming from. Some people just don't see past it and like to think the idea of the man being the main/sole provider is against all feminism fought for, blah blah blah. Personally, I would love to be the stock standard housewife, take care of the house during the day, organise meals to be on the table when he comes home, and just be organised in the house. My fiance doesn't mind this idea, and he wants to earn enough so that it can one day be a reality, but it's interesting how many of my friends are shocked by this, a lot of them uttering 'Oh but you're so independent, how could you stand that?', how does it make me any less independent to choose to be taken care of financially in order to take care of him in another manner? People are strange. I completely understand where you’re coming from. Some people just don’t see past it and like to think the idea of the man being the main/sole provider is against all feminism fought for, blah blah blah.

Personally, I would love to be the stock standard housewife, take care of the house during the day, organise meals to be on the table when he comes home, and just be organised in the house. My fiance doesn’t mind this idea, and he wants to earn enough so that it can one day be a reality, but it’s interesting how many of my friends are shocked by this, a lot of them uttering ‘Oh but you’re so independent, how could you stand that?’, how does it make me any less independent to choose to be taken care of financially in order to take care of him in another manner?

People are strange.

]]> By: Lita http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-877 Lita Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:57:09 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-877 I don't think that is asking for too much. I have always felt like the man should be the provider and breadwinner of the household. That's how I was raised and that's how it has been in my family. Don't get me wrong, women do need to be independent and able to do for themselves but if a man loves a women he should be able to provide for her when she wants to achieve a goal such as finishing her education or becoming a mother. But all too often I am seeing that women have been expecting less and less from men. This is becoming an alarming trend. I don’t think that is asking for too much. I have always felt like the man should be the provider and breadwinner of the household. That’s how I was raised and that’s how it has been in my family. Don’t get me wrong, women do need to be independent and able to do for themselves but if a man loves a women he should be able to provide for her when she wants to achieve a goal such as finishing her education or becoming a mother. But all too often I am seeing that women have been expecting less and less from men. This is becoming an alarming trend.

]]> By: Brian http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-876 Brian Tue, 31 Mar 2009 02:30:28 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-876 Well, i dont think it should be 50-50 i think it should be 100-100!!! What if he cleans his own clothes? what if "the husband" wakes up @ 5am with you and assist you with those duties of gettin the child ready? BUT I DO AGREE THE MAN SHOULD BE THE BREAD WINNER!!!! and as far as you getting your education as a full time student he should want that & assist with that..thats only gonna better you in put you in a situation to make bigger money!!! hope that helped?! Well, i dont think it should be 50-50 i think it should be 100-100!!! What if he cleans his own clothes? what if “the husband” wakes up @ 5am with you and assist you with those duties of gettin the child ready? BUT I DO AGREE THE MAN SHOULD BE THE BREAD WINNER!!!! and as far as you getting your education as a full time student he should want that & assist with that..thats only gonna better you in put you in a situation to make bigger money!!!

hope that helped?!

]]> By: chanel http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-875 chanel Tue, 31 Mar 2009 01:33:27 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-875 Exactly! It's like "taboo" all of a sudden to want to be married and have a future with someone. Sheesh. Exactly! It’s like “taboo” all of a sudden to want to be married and have a future with someone. Sheesh.

]]> By: chanel http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-874 chanel Tue, 31 Mar 2009 01:32:01 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-874 You are definitely a role model for many married couple with children out there. From following your blogs, you seem to always have a good head on your shoulders and is happy. Not many can say that about their relationship/marriage. You are definitely a role model for many married couple with children out there. From following your blogs, you seem to always have a good head on your shoulders and is happy. Not many can say that about their relationship/marriage.

]]> By: chanel http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-873 chanel Tue, 31 Mar 2009 01:25:46 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-873 There is something going on. And I don't blame it on the recession because it started way before that. There is something going on. And I don’t blame it on the recession because it started way before that.

]]> By: chanel http://kisschanel.com/asking-for-too-much/#comment-872 chanel Tue, 31 Mar 2009 01:24:16 +0000 http://diaryofchanel.com/?p=824#comment-872 We always think the same. Always always always. :love: We always think the same. Always always always. :love:

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