I think my ex boyfriend emotionally abused me or verbally at least. He would call me names, other then you know “bitch” because sometimes I deserve that. But, its when the words “slut” “physco” “crazy” etc come into play is when I feel like I’m being abused.

He would say/do things that were “abusing” and then say sorry after, that he couldn’t control it and he didn’t know what to do. Sometimes he’d offer to go to a psychologist and others he’d tell me off for even suggesting it.

There would be times where we would argue and because I’d be so frustrated I’d cry, and the the more I cried the more he would yell or get more angry and there were times where he’d tell me to stop being a cry baby, which would make it worse. I have anxiety issues, so that would lead to me being on the floor trying to catch my breathe and begging him to comfort me. However, sometimes when he finally did I would come at him physically out of rage that he’d take so long to finally calm me down.

So.. my theory is that he is emotionally abusive and verbally as well, but I cannot deny that I have come at him physically or called him an asshole, two faced..

Does that make me an abuser too?

I dont want to BLAME him but I must say I have never been like that in a relationship before.. It was like my way of feeling like i’m not letting him walk all over me.